Will you shut up, man?
I don’t even know where to start.
I am done, done, done with these jerks who try to talk over us and who accuse us (women in general, not me, because I am not successful) of having professional success only because we slept with the right person.
A young man at the place I volunteer told me a few weeks ago that Kamala had clearly slept her way to the top.
I replied, “Disagree with her on policy and her record – that’s fine. But that’s bullshit that she slept her way to her success. Honestly, if it were that easy for women to sleep our way to power, don’t you think we would all be doing it?”
Another volunteer, who is another Woman of a Certain Age, chimed in. “I know I would have,” she said. “If I could be rich just by sleeping with someone? I would do it.”
A member of the Wisconsin Republican party, which has time on their hands because it’s not like the Wisconsin legislature has met in the past six months or anything, tweeted this:
“If there are any questions on how to sleep your way to the top, Kamala will have an advantage,” Best wrote. His post included a meme that said, “She will be an inspiration to young girls by showing that if you sleep with the right powerfully connected men then you too can play second fiddle to a man with dementia. It’s basically a Cinderella story.”Milwaukee Journal Sentinel
- Cinderella did not sleep her way to the top. She made an awesome dress with the help of some cute rodents. I don’t think she and the prince even kiss.
- Let’s say Kamala (I know I should say “Harris” but Kamala is such a great name) did sleep her way to the top. I want to learn from her. Show me how to sleep with the right powerfully connected men so that I, too, can win court cases and be elected with (consults wikipedia) 3,000,689 votes.
Of course, I am assuming that everyone she slept with voted for her.
But what if she also slept with people who didn’t vote for her?
Because there were 1,416,203 votes cast for her opponent.
What if she slept with all the voters but not all of them voted for her?
How much time would it take to sleep with (3,000,689+1,416,203) = 4,416,892 people?
Leaving out the logistics of travel, etc, let’s assume 30 minutes per encounter.
That’s 2,208,446 hours, which is 92,018 days, which is 252 years.
252 years of sleeping with people to get their votes.
(That doesn’t even include the jurors on all of her trials.)
But my math might be wrong. My assumption of 30 minutes per encounter might be wrong. Please feel free to correct me.
Still, she would have been busy.
Which is why she doesn’t have time to let anyone talk over her.
Which is why hearing the VP trying to shut her up and hearing her response to him inspired joy in the heart of every single woman who has ever been in a meeting with men and wanted to shout, “WOULD YOU PLEASE JUST SHUT UP I AM TALKING IT’S MY TURN.”
We are so tired of being talked over. We are so tired of men interrupting us and not hearing us and saying what we just said and getting credit for it even though we are the ones who said it. We are so tired of being condescended to and being explained to.
We are tired.
And we loved it when Kamala told Pence “I’m speaking.”
Even though he knew she was speaking.
He knew and he spoke over her anyhow.
But she did not take his crap. She told him to shut up shut up shut up.
She did it more nicely than that, but that’s what she meant.
And even with that, she had to be careful.
Because heaven forbid she speak too loudly. Or too womanly. Or too meanly.
Because no matter what she does, she is going to be judged.
By jerks, I might add, but it must get tiring to be criticized all the time for doing normal things like frowning and talking and raising your voice because we all know that sometimes the only way to get men to listen is to scream and they don’t like it and ask why you don’t just ask in a normal tone of voice which is when you tell them that you did but they ignored you.
It fell to Harris to remind the vice president, “I’m speaking” — something he already knew but chose to ignore. If Harris had raised her voice in those moments, she would have been labeled shrill. If she had frowned, she would have been labeled a scold. If she had raised a hand, she would have been called angry or even unhinged.Washington Post
Which is a whole other thing – having to scream to be heard and then being chastised for not speaking softly. Which you did do. You did speak softly. You knelt at a football game.
That didn’t work.
So now people are screaming.
Why should anyone be surprised?